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	<description>when my heart beats in a chaotic rhythm...</description>
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		<title>someday</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2011 17:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[like i care. cuman iseng maenin text, lama ga buka photoshop kangen juga.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=phi21st.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6337321&amp;post=274&amp;subd=phi21st&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>like i care.<br />
cuman iseng maenin text, lama ga buka photoshop kangen juga.</p>
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		<title>the rules of parenting</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 15:01:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[great book !! dulu sebelom jadi parent pernah baca buku ini yang versi englishnya dan baru 6 halaman baca aja udah bosen. tapi setelah jadi parent dan baca buku ini lagi, rasanya beda banget, sueeerrr !! postingnya segini dulu yah, belom bikin reviewnya coz belom selesai baca bukunya *entah kenapa sayang buat cepet2 nyelesaiin baca [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=phi21st.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6337321&amp;post=262&amp;subd=phi21st&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>great book !!</p>
<p>dulu sebelom jadi <em>parent</em> pernah baca buku ini yang versi <em>english</em>nya dan baru 6 halaman baca aja udah bosen. tapi setelah jadi <em>parent</em> dan baca buku ini lagi, rasanya beda banget, sueeerrr !!</p>
<p>postingnya segini dulu yah, belom bikin reviewnya <em>coz </em>belom selesai baca bukunya *<em>entah kenapa sayang buat cepet2 nyelesaiin baca buku ini</em>*</p>
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		<title>raise your head</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 07:07:52 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>my 2 months old baby girl lying on tummy.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Dec 2010 07:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[udah lama ga posting dan rasanya hampir ga pernah bikin tulisan yang modelnya beginian, tapi pingin banget sharing soal breastfeeding atau menyusui berdasarkan pengalaman sendiri. menyusui itu, ternyata ga sekedar nyodorin payudara trus langsung beres. ternyata banyak sekali ilmunya, mitosnya, larangannya, bla bla bla&#8230; yang saya tulis disini bukanlah hal baru tentang breastfeeding. hanyalah hal [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=phi21st.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6337321&amp;post=222&amp;subd=phi21st&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>udah lama ga posting dan rasanya hampir ga pernah bikin tulisan yang modelnya beginian, tapi pingin banget sharing soal <em>breastfeeding </em>atau menyusui berdasarkan pengalaman sendiri. menyusui itu, ternyata ga sekedar nyodorin payudara trus langsung beres. ternyata banyak sekali ilmunya, mitosnya, larangannya, bla bla bla&#8230; yang saya tulis disini bukanlah hal baru tentang <em>breastfeeding</em>. hanyalah hal umum ditambah sedikit komentar.</p>
<p><strong>stress bikin produksi asi berkurang</strong><br />
pasca melahirkan, saya termasuk ibu baru yang mengalami sindrom <em>baby blues</em>, atau dengan kata lain, stress !! banyak hal yang jadi pikiran, bahkan selama proses persalinan berlangsung. kemudian setelah melahirkan, entah kenapa rasanya sediiih terus, mana dikit-dikit nangis. jadinya <em>lebay </em>dan ga jelas gitu deh.. hal ini berlangsung sekitar seminggu dan selama itu, asi saya seret alias tidak lancar!</p>
<p>asi harus lancar agar bayi sehat dan berat badannya naik. so, dengan segenap hati dan pikiran, saya mengatur emosi dan selalu mencoba menenangkan diri. dukungan dari keluarga, terutama suami bener-bener membantu.</p>
<p><strong>baby oil untuk lecet-lecet </strong><br />
hampir semua<em> new mom</em> mengalami puting lecet-lecet (bahkan sampe berdarah-darah) pada awal menyusui. sakitnya minta ampun dan waktu itu membuat saya tambah stress &gt;,&lt; !! katanya sih, asi sendiri merupakan obat buat lecet-lecet puting. tinggal pencet dikit sampai asi keluar langsung diolesin ke puting. tapi pas saya coba kok tetep saja perih dan ga sembuh-sembuh. akhirnya diolesin <em>baby oil</em>&#8230; eh manjur !!</p>
<p><strong>percaya ga percaya.. soal makanan pedas</strong><br />
mertua melarang saya makan makanan yang pedas-pedas selama menyusui, karena bisa pengaruh ke asi. awalnya saya ga percaya, dan didukung sama hasil <em>gugling </em>yang menyatakan kalo makanan pedas memang ga ngaruh ke asi. suatu waktu saya nyolong-nyolong makan pake sambel ijo dan alhasil, bayi saya muntah terus. duh, mukanya sampe merah waktu muntah, sepertinya lagi merasakan perih di perut.. saya sampe nangis, jadi nyesel makan pake sambel ijo.. ga lagi deh makan pedes selama menyusui :,(</p>
<p><strong>asi jelek</strong><br />
tidak ada asi jelek. jangan ganti dengan susu formula hanya karena asi anda terlalu encer ato karena lagi masuk angin. asi tetaplah yang paling baik buat bayi.</p>
<p><strong>asi encer</strong><br />
sekali lagi, bukanlah asi jelek. <em>foremilk </em>(asi depan) memang lebih encer daripada <em>hindmilk </em>(asi belakang) karena mengandung kalori yang lebih sedikit namun protein yang lebih banyak. untuk menjaga agar porsi <em>foremilk </em>dan <em>hindmilk </em>yang diminum bayi seimbang, jangan buru-buru pindah payudara selama menyusui. susui dari satu payudara sampai habis baru pindah ke yang satunya. jangan hitung 10 menit pada payudara pertama lalu kemudian pindah ke payudara satunya kalo bayi belom mendapat <em>hindmilk</em>. kan kasian kalo bayi hanya mengkonsumsi asi encer dari kedua payudara, nanti ga kenyang-kenyang trus ga gemuk-gemuk <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>katanya sih, biar <em>hindmilk </em>nyampur sama <em>foremilk</em>, setiap kali sebelum menyusui &#8216;kocok&#8217; dulu payudara anda. agak sakit memang, tapi asi-nya nyampur.</p>
<p><strong>asi deras</strong><br />
asi seret susah, deres juga susah karena bayi jadi ga mau nyusu. kalo lagi deres banget bahkan asi sampe mancur sendiri (bukan cuma netes lagi), solusinya menyusui sambil tiduran agar asi tidak terlalu mengucur karena gravitasi, atau kalo emang parah banget deresnya, mau tidak mau ya harus dipompa keluar dulu biar bayi ga keselek.</p>
<p><strong>menyusui sambil tiduran bikin ngantuk</strong><br />
bayinya mengantuk, apalagi emaknya.. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p>hmm, apalagi yah? bicara tentang menyusui rasanya ga habis-habis. poin-poin di atas hanyalah beberapa yang berkesan buat saya (<em>alhamdulillah</em> ga mengalami masalah menyusui yang aneh2).</p>
<p>kasus menyusui beda-beda antara ibu satu dengan ibu lainnya. kuncinya sebenarnya adalah jangan stress, nikmati saat-saat menyusui, dan banyak baca-baca perihal menyusui. trus saran saya, menyusuilah dengan insting, bukan dengan patokan jam&#8230;</p>
<p>happy <em>breastfeeding </em>!! <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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